The World of Friends

We all know there are guy players out there. Are there girls out there who play friends too? The girls who keep girls on the line but doesn't actually get close to them? I understand not having time to get together with people and all that as much as the next person, but I am NOT one to say "Oh yes I'd LOVE to get together with you." and then not actually tie myself down to a date until six months later. I either make the date or say, "Gosh I really would love to get together with you, but I am going to be sooo busy these next few months, can we touch base down the road?" This girl in my Sunday School class has the first sort of attitude with people. She is bugging the s**t out of me which REALLY bugs me because girls don't usually get to me like that. I'm trying to figure her out, which obviously does me no good.